Boundaries

Essays and field notes about self-respect, limits, emotional safety, accountability, and refusing to disappear inside someone else’s comfort.

  • Love Should Not Require Self-Abandonment

    July 8, 2026

    A Blackthorn Field Notes essay on love, self-abandonment, emotional safety, and why healthy connection should not require someone to erase themselves to keep the peace.

  • The People You Leave Behind

    May 15, 2026

    An essay on LGBTQ+ solidarity, historical memory, and the growing push to separate trans and queer people from the community that once survived together.

  • The Relationship You Were Promised No Longer Exists

    May 8, 2026

    Modern relationships are changing because women are no longer trapped by dependence. Equality did not ruin relationships. It changed what healthy partnership requires.

  • Relationships Are a Tightrope Act

    May 4, 2026

    A relationship is not one person keeping balance for two. It is shared responsibility, repair, and the work of staying steady together.